I hate this comparison because it is disingenuous on the price and financial constraints. If you're talking pricing you can't ignore the epic day/Ikon session pass options, which makes the money and price per day about the same as light passholders.
There isn't truly a financial barrier for the 4 day family. You only get bit once by that. The real barrier is the forced commitment and for people to be in the know to plan ahead and commit you are going the 3 or 4 days this season at a network resort and actually go.
You are paying a lot to retain the time option to decide to go/not go.
I see that you are in SF area, so I am assuming you are skiing in Tahoe. Your ski season probably started in November/December and will end in April. For person that lives in Mid-Atlantic our local ski areas did not really open until January, which has been the norm recently. It just recently opened all the way up two weeks ago. For the most of December and January it seemed to rain or warm up every weekend. They will probably shut down in the next two weeks.
When you add in the other kids events that are also important, the opportunities to get out an ski here become even less.
The cost of an Epic Local pass is the same whether I live in Colorado, Vermont, or Washington DC. I have written to Vail and let them know that there should be a Pennsylvania pass for those people who don't necessarily live in colder climates. Their response was something like, "Our Epic pass provides great value, as you are able to ski any of are other Epic resorts for the remainder of the season." Which is BS. Lodging and travel for a family of five. So they will not ski this year or maybe once. What does that mean, the next generation (my nieces and nephews) will be more unlikely to ski when they are older meaning their kids won't necessarily grow up skiing either.
I have been working on and off at a ski shop for the past 30 years and I am pretty passionate skier. I am the guy in the neighborhood who is constantly asked questions about how to take up skiing here. I tell people about the value of the Epic Pass, seasonal lease programs or Jr. Trade in Programs for kids, that make it less expensive and easier to make last minute decisions to go skiing, where you can brown bag lunches, and good ideas.
But 80% of the time I get pushback that the initial investment is still too expensive.
I purchased a 4 day Epic Local pass this year to cover any possible days that I might ski locally, but even I think it is crazy that tmy daily cost of a lift ticket will be the same if I am skiing 600 vertical feet with limited terrain or 1500+ in Vermont or Colorado.
...Stepping off Soap Box....