Thanks, SugarCube! That sounds like a good book for me to read for more reasons than just skiing fear, since I just obtained my real estate license!Amy, I’ve followed most of this thread with interest, empathy, and sympathy. I’ve struggled with true paralyzing fear while skiing (just ask Uncle Louie about me on International at Vail). I’ve taken ski camps, read books, and nothing has really helped. One ski camp actually made it worse. On the hill, some days are good, others, well, you understand.
I am currently reading a book by Dan Heath and came across some stuff about courage I thought might resonate with you. It’s from his newest book called “The Power of Moments.” Without doing an entire book report here, it’s actually about customer service and creating memorable moments for your clients. That said, Mr. Heath writes about creating courageous moments. One example is how the military “trains for courage” and one technique they used is described as “the gradual and graduated practice of the dangerous tasks likely to be encountered.” The result is “the successful practice of courageous performance” which led to reduced fear and increased confidence. Another example he offers is how someone terrified of spiders uses this approach and, within two hours, can have a tarantula walk across his/her ungloved hand. Wow. And Eww.
He also writes about a psychologist, Peter Gollwitzer, using “implementation intentions” to build courage before facing the potentially fearful situation. “If I find myself on a steep, ungroomed trail, I will do (fill in the blank).” It’s “preloading” your behavior so when you’re actually experiencing that which you fear, you already have your plan ready to go.
My take on this is folks like us just need to keep trying, bit by bit, to ski the stuff that scares us. Have a mental plan ready for when the fear grips us. And then…one turn….another turn…
Have a safe, fun, and courageous ski season, and maybe see you at the Gathering!
Implementation intentions sound like visualization, which is something I do like to utilize. It's not always easy when the movement patterns just aren't there for certain situations BUT I can sure visualize ways to calm myself, and give myself courage in the moment.
Would LOVE to ski with you! I'm guessing I'll be leading some groups at Snowbasin, since it's my home mountain. Not sure about any of the other days, but I'm guessing I'll be able to participate for at least one of them. Would love to take some runs together with another "fear head" who gets it